Why Sensuous Beauty?
We are all of us, starving for pleasure. Starving for contact, starving for touch. At the same time, we live in a world that is so sex-ophobic and so sex-obsessed, that we fear that all contact will be misconstrued.
When any person moves sensuously with intention and care, it is beautiful, but culturally it is interpreted as a mating call, a personal signal inviting sexual action, and as such, it has huge significance. This stops us from expressing sensuality in our daily lives. The sexual significance is too vulnerable to express and we are stopped from sharing our sensuous beauty with many people, (quite often even our partners) or enjoying it for ourselves in everyday life.
In this glorious afternoon of conscious connection, we will quickly and clearly distinguish sensuality from sexuality, allowing us to abandon forever this fear of expression . Through doing so, we make it safe for everyone to express love, appreciation, and playful attraction without thinking that it means anything or is going anywhere.
But What IS Sensuous Beauty?
Sensuous Beauty is an experience you allow in your body. It is throwing your neck back, closing your eyes, and relaxing your face. It is making art with your body through Movement and Strength. It is stretching, reaching, feeling/expressing the feminine feline that lives within you. It is Self-Care for women, taken to its highest level: The most natural, fun, fulfilling and freeing self-care imaginable.
Sensuous Beauty and Self Care:
So many women are talking about self care – yet much of what we give to ourselves as self-care is a passive experience – a bubble bath, a mani-pedi, a day at the spa. Even when we dance, we mostly dance alone. That is why Being Sensuous Beauty is so important, we need to connect with ourselves and each other in spiritual/physical/emotional ways! That is Self-Care Extraordinaire!
Too often, women’s time together is filled up with talking… we talk about money, we talk about men, we talk about each other. Those conversations mostly lead to comparison and criticism. We don’t emerge from the talk feeling filled up with love.
When we abandon words and connect with each other in non-verbal ways, moving, gazing and breathing together, we see the Goddess in each other. That experience grounds every woman in her unique beauty. There is a bonding that happens as we accept, engage, and enjoy connecting together in a world where sensuality is not sexuality.
Difference between Sensuality and Sexuality:
There is a clear line that divides this world - that line is liquid. Liquid means using the tongue or stimulating any part of the body where liquid comes from. The liquid sexual energy is beautiful in itself and is to be valued and respected. But this is not that. And once we move Beyond Words and Tongues, we rise into a new level of love and connection in which, as the famous poem The Charge of the Goddess says, “There is Beauty and Strength, Power and Compassion, Honor and Humility, Mirth and Reverence for All.
As we Choose Love In This Moment, we tap into the “In to Me You See” field of Spiritual Unity. We tap into Glory…We become the Divine.
How shall we Dress?
To create an experience of unity, please wear form fitting black or solid color clothes, no patterns please, and ideally let your shoulders and arms be seen. So much of our sensuality comes from seeing the art of the body. Come wearing something that let’s your art be seen!!!!